tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post1156949088013010379..comments2012-01-15T10:25:54.914+02:00mamapoekiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06773235393702832137noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post-77956752848640173202012-01-15T03:31:04.026+02:002012-01-15T03:31:04.026+02:00amazing, so inspiring to read your inner struggle and how essentially not outwardly reacting gave you and your son time to move father into the process. I feel the need to react while I'm still struggling to process my thoughts and feelings, but as long as everyone is safe (other than potential grossness, lol) there usually isn't a need for a swift reaction. Looking forward to reading this again after thinking on it some.Kristahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11648072379336549633noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post-25277635412723211512012-01-15T00:43:36.698+02:002012-01-15T00:43:36.698+02:00I needed to have someone put this into words for me; so all my ugly words don't need to come out! Thank you!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post-46902925419743351672012-01-14T23:21:06.931+02:002012-01-14T23:21:06.931+02:00Thank you all for reading and your lovely comments!mudpiemamahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06392615075195750367noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post-49949984688193706912012-01-14T17:57:51.345+02:002012-01-14T17:57:51.345+02:00wow that would be so hard for me, near impossible! especially the spitting and once it gets to that i go off - not because of the fact that it is gross, which it totally is, but the 'disrespect' part about spitting on someone, especially in my culture. but even generally i find it rare that i can keep my cool and not yell or argue back. i have a long way to goAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post-57760808656225129172012-01-14T06:56:38.191+02:002012-01-14T06:56:38.191+02:00holy cow. you are amazing. somehow i will channel your calm and learn to listen closely to my feelings and then react in a positive way when things are not unfolding quite so positively. :) thank you for this post.kimberlylam1207http://www.blogger.com/profile/14863829344844944645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post-71080456993726725202012-01-14T06:55:06.762+02:002012-01-14T06:55:06.762+02:00holy cow. you are amazing. somehow i will channel your calm and listen to my feelings before responding in a less than desirable way. thank you for this post.kimberlylam1207http://www.blogger.com/profile/14863829344844944645noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2818334054422432499.post-45046267629906883792012-01-13T17:28:26.610+02:002012-01-13T17:28:26.610+02:00Love it!Thank You. Really helped me this morning! Hugs, hugs and hugs...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com