Written by Carina Freeman
This month's posts by monthly fertility contributor Carina Freeman is a series of "Dear baby letters". This is part one of two. Visit us next week for the second part.
I am starting this story as a journal of your travels to us. We have longed to meet and greet you for so long but have been held up by the slow process of IVF. You see mummy found her partner of her dreams 8 years ago and together we can’t bring you into this world alone. We need the assistance of a wonderful man, who will donate his sperm so we can bring you into this lovely world.
We started our journey for you back in September 2009. The doctors couldn’t find a reason for mummy not to be able to have you so mummy and partner had to wait for the law to change as without this change we would be doing a bad thing by having you as much as we really wanted you in our life.
In February 2010 mummy rang and was so happy the law had changed but along with that came more issues, lots of paper work, and more hold ups. So mummy waited months and months till finally we had passed all the tests and had proven our love for you.
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In December 2010 mummy was giving herself injections in the luck that she could finally meet you. However when it came time for the scans mummy's body had failed and let her down, the follicles were to small so mummy cried and cried for days because this meant she had to wait even longer to get the chance to meet you.
Mummy has paid 3,800 for the chance to see you again. Mummy will start again in February and will try her best for her body to give you a nice cozy nest to be in.
We have your room here its half set up we can’t wait to meet you, know you will always be loves and spoiled here. Not a day goes by that we don’t think of you in our family we have names for you. Please dear baby come bless us with your presences in February.
Lots and lots of love always
Mummy and family
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